22 Free and Cheap Date Night Ideas in Northern Virginia! Prince William, Fairfax, Loudoun, Arlington, Alexandria, and DC included.

Whether it’s your first date (don’t be boring and do the dinner thing!), or your 7th anniversary and you have 6 kids, try out a few of my favorite date ideas in Northern Virginia!

Blueberry picking at Great Country Farms (Loudoun County):

There’s plenty of other pick your own farms in Northern Virginia but Loudon definitely has the most diverse. Great Country Farms is my favorite because they have blueberries! Pick a ton, freeze them and you’ll be eating blueberry pancakes to commemorate your date for a while! Pack a picnic to bring with you. Click here to head to Great Country Farms and then click here for a full listing of Loudon county pick your own farms.

Cosmic bowling at Bowl America:

Is it a little lame? Sure. Are the shoes pretty goofy? Yup. But it’s also an absolute blast! Cosmic bowling is when the lights come down and the glow in the dark features come out. They even have glow in the dark balls!

Games and shoe rental can get more expensive than I like (I have mentioned I’m cheap right?), but look on the website for Bowl America (who has a heavy presence in NoVa), right now they have a 25 cent per game and 25 cent per hotdog promotion going on all weekend! Click here for the Bowl America website.

 If you’re looking for date ideas in Northern Virginia for a playful, slightly goofy date, this is your best bet.

Potomac Nationals ball game:

I’m not a sports fan, I barely know anything about sports at all. But I love heading to P-nats games. They have dollar nights for every Monday night home game (click here for their website), where hotdogs and tickets are each a dollar. Parking is $5.00, but it’s well worth it. I was so excited about this date, I wrote a full write up on it… Click here for that.

FDR Memorial at Sunset:

Quite possibly my favorite place in the world. It’s beautiful and meaningful, and if you pack a picnic, it’ll be the best date of your life. Click here for more info.

Manassas Airport:

We did this not too long ago. Pack up a picnic, beach chairs or camp chairs and take them out to the airport. It’s a small airport but fairly busy. Set yourself up in the grass before sunset and pack a blanket to keep warm.

You can watch the planes take off well into the dark and it’s always one of my favorite places. If you have particularly cool friends, have them meet you with the same. We did that and had a blast. Click here for the airport website.

Take it from a pilot’s wife. If you’re looking for date idea sin Northern Virginia for a flying enthusiast, this is your best bet!

Planetarium:

Air and Space Museum’s Saturday Star Parties- click here for the link. Meet up in Sky Meadows State Park on assigned nights (click the link to check the schedule) to look at the night sky with both amateur astronomers and astronomers from the observatory. And of course… Pack a picnic!

 While we usually avoid the Woodrow Wilson Bridge like the plague, there’s a good reason to head over there. There’s a beautiful park on top of the bridge on the Maryland side. The views from there are stunning (and occasionally of accidents on I-495) and both sunset and sunrise will take your breath away. Click here for more info.

This is hands down the best date ideas in Northern Virginia if you’re dating an outdoor enthusiast.

 You don’t have to be in NoVa to try this out, but thanks to our zillion people living in close quarters, it makes it a great place to get into it. Geocaching is the epitome of frugal entertainment. You and your date register for free at this website, then type in the zip code you want to head to.

You’ll enter a real life treasure hunt where you follow the instructions that will lead you to the treasure. The treasure might be anything from a log book to an Xbox. I should mention that geocaching rules state you must leave something of equal or greater value if you take the treasure.

Hiking at Prince William Forest Park:

 There’s an entrance fee per car to enter the park, about $7.00 but I would pay the $20 per year if you live close for unlimited access. You can click here for updated information. It’s absolutely serene and beautiful.

You’ll have no idea that you’re in the middle of Northern Virginia. They have ponds and deep woods and the bathrooms are all clean (am I the only one that thinks about these things?) This is also several beautiful spots for a picnic.

Ikea:

 Head to Ikea to plan your dream home then stay for hotdogs! IKEA is like my vacation home. Seriously, I’m there that often.

Besides the $.50 hotdogs, we love the showroom. We love walking through and planning what our future house (you know, the house we’ll have once our babies learn not to destroy things and we have enough saved that we feel comfortable spending money on decorating) will look like. I

f you have kids, they also have free child care for a bit in smaaland.  You can find their website here.

 If you’re looking for date ideas in Northern Virginia for a girl that you’ve been seriously dating for a while, this is your  best bet. (I wouldn’t attempt to plan this one for a guy).

Biking/Walking the Mount Vernon Trail:

This trail winds along the Potomac River and offers breathtaking views and tons of greenery. There’s no fee, and it’s one of my top picnic spots. Click here to head to their website for more info.

Free Yoga at National Harbor or Lorton Workhouse Arts Center:

 Are you a yogi? Head over to the sites for Lorton Work House Arts Center and the National Harbor to check for updated information about their free yoga days. Both are done outside during nice weather and would be a great date!

 If you’re looking for date ideas in Northern Virginia for a health enthusiast, this is your best bet!

Free outdoor movies at (tons of places! Stonebridge Town Center in Woodbridge and National Harbor are my favorites):

 Outdoor movies are amazing for so many reasons! You can bring a picnic or your own snacks, you can bring the kids (this is perfect for a toddlers first movie!). These are typically only available in the summer, so plan accordingly and follow the facebook page of National Harbor (found here) and Stonebridge (found here) for updates.

If you live in Prince William County, save yourself all of that trouble and just follow Prince William County Moms page (found here), she’ll list events for any Prince William area outdoor movies.

Gravelly Point on the Mount Vernon Trail:

You can walk the Mount Vernon Trail in Arlington, or you can head right here for a memorable picnic. If you spread out your blanket and lay down, the planes fly directly over your head (closer than you would think! I swear I could see duct tape on the door of an overhead plane once).

You can get some really cool photos with the planes overhead as well. This park is right on the shores of the Potomac River and offers beautiful views of the DC monuments. Click here for directions- The link goes to the yelp page for the park, which has both directions and the reviews. The reviews say it all.

If you’re looking for date ideas in Northern Virginia for a girl you want to marry, then this is it. (This is also a fantastic proposal spot!)

Screw the traffic, stay in and have a cooking date night:

 Tough week at work? Sick of traffic? Drop the kids off at the babysitter’s house and stay in. You can plan an amazing meal right into your grocery budget. Make it something that’s a little time consuming but well worth it.

My dream cooking date night meal would be sweet and sour pork with vegetable eggs rolls, fried rice, fortune cookies and pistachio ice cream. All done by hand.

You can do some of the food prep work ahead of time if it helps. Cooking together is fun, sensual,  and builds team work skills (which really, team work skills is pretty much essential to a good marriage).

If you’re looking for date ideas in Northern Virginia for someone that loves to learn new things, this is your best bet.

Washington National baseball games:

 If you’re a huge baseball fan and would get more out of the Major League game than the Potomac Nationals, they do have dollar nights! If you take the Metro up (just a few dollars) and take the nosebleed seats, you can go to a game very cheaply. If you’re not really into baseball, I would stick to the P-Nats which are amazing and fun. Click here for their website.

If you’re looking for date ideas in Northern Virginia for a sports enthusiast, then this is your best bet!

Ingham family mystery challenge:

If you have a bit to spend and want to splurge (a little!), try the Ingham Family Mystery Gift Challenge. Each of you is given an envelope with the exact same amount of cash. It can be anything from $3.00 to $50.00, hit a mall (Potomac Mills is kind of big for this!) and coordinate your cell phone clocks.

You have 1 hour to spend exactly that amount of money on your partner in gifts. Read the full instructions here but to date, this has been my favorite date night ever!

Pinterest project date night:

Do any of those amazing projects you would love to do on Pinterest, but take some sort of skill that you don’t have (woodworking is my Achilles heel). This develops the same team building skills as the cooking date night and gives you something in addition to just your memories for your money.

You can build a new kitchen table, create a family mission statement, or any project that you’re both excited about!

If you’re looking for date night ideas for… well, me. Then this is you’re best bet.

Arlington National Cemetery:

This is both a powerful and awe-inspiring place that will make you really appreciate one another. We’re very blessed to live so close to it. Besides walking through the tombstones of soldiers that gave the ultimate sacrifice to their country, you can see JFK’s tombstone and the changing of the guard ceremony at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier.

I’m incredibly proud to say that my husband served in the changing of the guard ceremony for the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier and you won’t be disappointed by the dedication of the men that serve there. Click here for more information.

 If you’re looking for date ideas in Northern Virginia for a military member, this is your best bet.

Dollar Night at Arlington Cinema and Draft House:

This is a full movie theater that has tables at every seat and offers $2.00 movie nights (usually on Mondays and Tuesdays), you can order full meals, elaborate snacks (nachos are amazing!) or draft beer! Click here for their movie schedule.

If you’re looking for date ideas in Northern Virginia for an eclectic movie enthusiast, then this is your best bet.

Cherry Blossoms in DC!

If you plan to head up to see the cherry blossoms, take a good camera (or at least an iPhone) and check out some of the free monuments. The weather is normally beautiful this time of year (March/April) and it’s the perfect time to play tourist. You can use the metro and pop on and off to see what interests you most.

Try out Bens Chili Bowl if you plan to stay for lunch (only pack a lunch if you have a backpack cooler- you won’t want to lug a traditional cooler around). Click here for cherry blossom info. Click here for Ben’s Chili Bowl information including menu and prices (the photos are mouth watering).

The National Zoo:

This amazing place is completely free if you do it right! Pack a picnic (take the stroller if you must, sans baby to stash your stuff in- no one will be the wiser), take metro up (parking is $25 if you’d rather do that but they run out of parking right after they open) and print off a zoo map from the website online (they charge for copies there).

The absolute best time to go is off season (we went on an unusually warm day in February and had the time of our lives). It can get really hot and crowded there in the summer.

If you’re looking for date ideas in Northern Virginia that are fairly unique, this is your best bet. We’re so lucky to have such a huge (FREE!) zoo right next door.

Not to mention, you can take some pretty cute instagram pictures here. Just sayin’.

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Gravelly Point: Arlington, Virginia courtesy of www.dcnaturephotography.blogspot.com